Blog Revamp

I am now writing on another website called www.lovefraud.com, so I am going to be more intentional about the blog posts on this website. I want to eventually build a curriculum for people recovering from a relationship with a sociopath, which will better serve the title of this blog “surviving sociopathic destruction.” Blessings!

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The “D” Word

What is it with this depression thing? Thanks to my parents and a wonderful childhood, I never knew really that this word existed until my early 20’s. It seems like it happens to you when you least expect it, at least that’s how it was for me. I have been waving in and out of […]

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I Have Won and I Have Lost

There is always a song that touches us exactly where we are. And the gift of music and melody transfer those feelings from one person to the other. In a strange way, music says what we cannot say. And there is something about the sound of the melody and voice and the instruments all together […]

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A Hard Conversation

After I decided to separate from my husband because of “ahem” emails that I had found on his computer and an American Express statement with “ahem” purchases on them (a story for another time) I decided to go ahead and just take a looksie on what could possibly be on the good ol Facebook. Ya […]

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Running From Darkness

I acknowledge and grieve for the darkness in this world, the darkness that has been in my life, the darkness that has been in the forefront of my life for more than a decade. It’s a quiet night, my little one has fallen peacefully asleep, and rain has just begun to tap softly on the […]

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A Short Story for a Narcissitic Man

Let’s start with the definition of Narcissism: Narciccistic Personality Disorder-Mayo Clinic “Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental disorder in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for admiration and a lack of empathy for others. But behind this mask of ultraconfidence lies a fragile self-esteem that’s vulnerable to the […]

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